Do you feel like life has more to offer, are you overwhelmed about how to change things or which direction to take? As we reach midlife we can be spinning so many plates it can be difficult to work out what we even want or need.

Midlife doesn't have to be a crisis.  It's a stage of opportunity, a time for transformation and reinvention - with the right help.  By talking things through, being truly heard and held, we can work together to help you redefine your path and achieve lasting changes. 

It's time to prioritise your wellbeing...

A New Path Awaits
Midlife can be likened to reaching the summit of a mountain; it's been one hell of a climb, but this vantage point offers a broader perspective on life. 

We can reflect on your journey, appreciate the challenges you've overcome, and the strategies you've developed to cope.  

Perhaps those strategies no longer serve you, maybe you have set your sights on new goals, or maybe you feel anxious about what the future holds?

Therapy can give you agency to take control of your own life, explore the choices you have and the changes you may wish to make. 

Hi, I'm Sarah


Why I became a therapist

My journey to becoming a psychotherapist specialising in midlife challenges wasn't a straight path — and that's precisely what makes me effective at what I do.  Like many of my clients, I've navigated career changes, relationship evolutions, and the sometimes disorienting question of "what's next?" that often emerges in our middle years.  

My first experience of therapy literally changed the course of my life.  I was caring full-time for a loved one and had lost a sense of myself,  I needed to have my own outlet to process my feelings and anxieties.  My therapist gave me space to think and talk, l felt heard without being judged and she enabled me to gain clarity about what I want and who I am.   My experience inspired me to want to offer the same empowerment and transformation to others, and this set me on the path of counselling training. 

I have had therapy at other times since; when I have needed to process grief and at times of feeling lost or overwhelmed.  The therapeutic space has always been somewhere I have felt safe enough to be curious about myself and better understand my place in the world - not only as a mother, daughter, wife, sister and colleague, but as a midlife woman. 

My Approach

I believe that midlife challenges aren't simply problems to solve but doorways to deeper self-understanding and more authentic living.  My therapy blends compassionate listening that honours your unique story.  I use practical, evidence-based tools for managing transition.  I combine creative exploration of new possibilities, with gentle accountability to help you create lasting change.

When I'm not working with clients, you'll find me walking with my dogs, going to the cinema, having afternoon tea with my friends, enjoying fish and chips at the beach with my family, listening to podcasts and all types of music, and having a laugh with my husband and grown up children.

Training & Credentials

  • Post Graduate Diploma in Humanistic Counselling (Distinction) from York St John University
  • Level 2 & 3 Certificates in Counselling 
  • BA Hons
  • Registered Member of British Association of Counselling & Psychotherapy (BACP)

Recent Training

Complex Trauma Certificate Level 1 & 2, Online & Telephone Counselling, Mindfulness, Prevention of Suicide, Putting Polyvagal Theory Into Practice, Sand Tray Therapy, Safeguarding, Treating Trauma with Internal Family Systems Therapy, The Inside of Autism, Introduction to the Menopause

I hold an enhanced DBS, I am fully insured and registered with the Information Commissioner's Office (ICO).

My Therapeutic Toolbox

I draw from several evidence-based approaches, including:

  • Mindfulness Practices to reduce stress and increase clarity
  • Polyvagal Theory to understand how our autonomic nervous system's three distinct states (social engagement, fight-or-flight, and freeze/shutdown) influence our emotional responses.  Learn to regulate your nervous system 
  • Working with parts to identify and heal wounded parts while accessing your own capacity for self compassion
  • Creative Therapy using symbols, pictures or music as a means of unlocking hidden emotions or thoughts that might be difficult to express verbally






I specialise in working with adults navigating midlife transitions, typically people in their 40s and 50s who are experiencing shifts in identity, relationships, career, or purpose. Many of my clients feel stuck, uncertain, or ready for meaningful change such as:

  • Managing stress and anxiety
  • Empty nest adjustments, or 'boomerang' adult children
  • Relationship transitions (divorce, dating after divorce)
  • Identity questions and purpose exploration
  • Confidence and self-esteem challenges
  • Work-life balance struggles
  • Processing grief and loss
  • Navigating physical changes
  • Career dissatisfaction or changes
If you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or that something needs to change in your life, therapy can help provide clarity and support. You don't need to be in crisis to benefit from therapy — many clients come simply because they want more fulfilment and purpose.

Midlife therapy acknowledges the unique developmental challenges and opportunities of this life stage. Rather than simply treating symptoms, we explore how this transitional period offers opportunities for deeper authenticity, meaning, and joy. We not only focus on what you're moving through, but what you're moving toward.
Finding the right therapeutic match is essential. That's why I offer a free 20 -30 minute discovery session before committing to working together. This gives us both a chance to determine whether my approach and specialisation align with your needs.
All sessions take place via secure video platform offering you: 
  • therapy from the comfort of your own space
  • no commute time
  • flexible scheduling options
  • the same deep, transformative work as in-person therapy

Simply use the 'contact me' form or email me at themidlifetherapist.pm.me to book your free discovery session. 

During this brief video session (20 - 30 min), we'll discuss what brings you to therapy, answer any questions you have, and determine next steps.

I will respond within 48 hours of your request, so if you have not heard from me within that time please check your junk/spam folders in case my reply has dropped into there.
Our first session focuses on getting to know each other. I'll ask about what brings you to therapy, relevant background information, and your hopes for our work together. You'll have plenty of opportunity to ask questions and get a feel for my approach.
I use a secure online platform. You'll receive a private link before each session - all you need is a device with good internet connection and a private space where you can speak freely.

Working online allows me to serve clients across the UK. 

Online therapy has been shown to be just as effective as in-person therapy for most people, while offering greater convenience and flexibility.

Initial Consultation (Free) A 20-minute video call to discuss 
your needs and determine if we're 
a good therapeutic match.
Familiarisation & Goal SettingIn our first few sessions, I will get 
to know you; we'll explore your 
current challenges, history, and 
what you hope to achieve through 
therapy.
Personalised Therapy 
Regular 50-minute online sessions 
using approaches specifically selected 
to address your unique situation.
Integration & Growth
As you implement new insights and 
practices in your daily life, we'll refine 
our approach based on what's working.
Completion & Continuation
Some clients work with me for a few 
weeks, others for longer. We'll regularly 
assess your progress and adjust our plan 
accordingly.





Absolutely. Confidentiality is a cornerstone of effective therapy. 

There are a few exceptions to this which I will talk through with you in our Discovery Session. 

My standard online session fee is £60 for a 50-minute session.  I appreciate therapy can be expensive; my online rates are set to keep therapy accessible to as many midlifers as possible.  
I require 48 hours' notice for cancellations to avoid being charged for the session. I understand that emergencies happen, and we can discuss special circumstances as they arise.
This varies widely depending on your goals and circumstances. I usually suggest we start with 6 sessions and review it from there.  Some people find the clarity and tools they need in just a few sessions, while others benefit from longer-term support. Together, we'll regularly assess your progress and discuss what timeline makes sense for your needs.  

If you wish to end therapy, it can be helpful to dedicate one final session together so that we can bring our work together to a close. 


DISCOVERY SESSION - FREE

I offer a free discovery session, which is a great way to take the first step towards finding the right support for your journey. Typically, a 20 - 30 minute online session designed to find out what is bringing you to therapy right now, what specific challenges you are facing and what your goals and needs are. Contact me to arrange a discovery session - it is a great way to see if we are a good fit, which is so important for your therapy to be successful.

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ONLINE INDIVIDUAL THERAPY - £60

Online Therapy offers convenient and accessible counselling sessions from the comfort of your own home. These sessions last 50 minutes via a secure online link - all you need is a good internet connection and somewhere private to speak freely. We usually meet weekly, however once a relationship has been established we can discuss meeting less regularly as appropriate. Contact me to arrange your online therapy - we will need to have a free discovery session prior to starting online therapy. I am based in the UK.

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There are unexplored adventures ahead of you. You can’t live the rest of your life worried about what other people think. You were born worthy of love and belonging. Courage and daring are coursing through your veins. You were made to live and love with your whole heart. It’s time to show up and be seen.
Brené Brown
Client

Sarah is fantastic at listening in a non-judgemental way, she has really helped me in a short space of time and would recommend her to anyone who does not know where to get started with therapy.

Client

Thank you so much Sarah. You have really helped me know myself better and given me many tools to move forward positively.

Client

Sarah is so easy to speak to. She really makes me feel heard and understood and provides practical support whilst not putting pressure on me to do anything I’m not comfortable with. Sarah is also proactive with additional support that she feels may help.

I will respond within 48 hours of your request, so if you have not heard from me within that time please check your junk/spam folders in case my reply has dropped into there.


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